Several
years ago, my husband and I tried to build a birdhouse. No bird
wanted to live in it. Then we built a stool. No person wanted to
sit on it. And then we concluded that we never wanted to work together on another
construction project!
I
have full confidence that marriage counselors would be out of work if
engaged couples attempted to build something together (or share a
canoe or put up striped wallpaper). Let's just say that such
endeavors clarify the yin and the yang in a couple and those who
stick it out will last. In our case, because he can't cook and I
can't fly, we need each other, so we stick together. However, we
mutually agreed to never attempt future constructions together –
never ever.