One of my big pet peeves about churches is that the only
time they seem to talk about money is when they want some! It’s not that I begrudge their need. Any organization that occupies a building has
utility bills, insurance, maintenance.
Anyone who values that organization and its facility should contribute
to those payments.
No, what bothers me is something else. If Churches are supposed to help us wrestle
with personal and social demons and sort out ethical dilemmas and inspire us to
do good in the world, and if, surely, a central figures in many of these human
dramas is the role of money – sometimes as the good guy and sometimes as the
bad guy, then money seems a very worthy topic on a Sunday morning - not to ask
for it -but to help the congregants deal
with it! And yet, in the churches I have
attended, I don’t believe I have ever heard such a sermon. Have you?
Instead, many religions proclaim negative images of
money: Buddha gave up princely
wealth, Gandhi gave up his job as an
attorney. Jesus has mixed messages about
money. So I endeavored to make something
up!
I started with some research, as I always do. I discovered that a number of churches and
religious leaders do talk about money, and interestingly some of these are
large and growing congregations, like Lakewood and the Unity congregation in
Houston. These are described by some
people as “churches of abundance” and “ministries of prosperity.” I’m sure I’m simplifying their messages, but
they seem to be that God wants you to have a life of abundance, which includes
financial prosperity. Norman Vincent
Peal wrote: Put God to work for you and maximize your potential in our divinely
ordered capitalist system.”
Now I don’t feel particularly comfortable with these points
of view, so my thoughts turned to what people actually do with their
money. Money doesn’t appear on Maslow’s
hierarchy of needs alongside water, food, shelter, safety, but isn’t it really
shorthand for all of them? Money is a
way to measure and secure so much water or so much food or shelter. This transactional role of money is pretty
clear cut.
But it also occurred to me that if the number one reason
cited for divorce is not love or sex but money, it must have other roles or
meanings, too. Earning, accumulating,
sharing, spending, and saving money are freighted by symbolic meaning for
people, and that meaning may differ for a husband and wife or a father and son
or employees in different departments of the same business, or for political
figures.
So here is my approach:
It seems to me that money means four different things to people, and
each one has a spiritual challenge and a spiritual gift. These four meanings are safety, power,
opportunity, and affection. It can hold these meanings for different
people, or to the same person in different circumstances. I hope that as I
speak, you’ll consider what money means to you, and what challenges you face
because of that and what gifts you gain.
Maybe you’ll come up with meanings altogether different than the ones I
list.
Because financial arguments often line up with safety on one
side and the other three opposite it, I am going to talk longest about saving
money as a safety strategy, and then more briefly about the other three.